We provide an array of services including individual counseling and extended therapy sessions (intensives) using EMDR and Brainspotting. We also offer holistic modalities like crystal bowl sound and biofield tuning sessions. We collaborate with CBT and talk therapists who have clients who are stuck in their trauma (adjunct therapy services using EMDR and Brainspotting). We serve Dallas, Richardson, Plano, and the entire State of Texas. We also supervise and support LPC Associates in their journey to full licensure.
My first VLOG! In it's raw form, including the abrupt end :). Journey with me as I reflect on what I've learned being a therapist for the past 7 years. It's hard to believe, 7 years this month! My how time flies. I plan to do do more VLOGS (and promise to become better at it, lol). Let me know if you have any topics you want me to discuss!
As a therapist, I often hear these statements: "I've been this way for so long," "It's just who I am," "I don't know any other way," "I'm afraid of what's on the other side" "It's been years and years. Is change really possible? "I've talked about this for so long and nothing has changed. It seems hopeless."
These are valid observations, questions, and concerns. Sometimes, your experiences are so embedded into your psyche that it's challenging to see anything other than what is in front of you. So, I want to identify two key points that can help you see things a bit differently and perhaps create a pathway of curiousity towards the change that takes place through the therapy process.
Number 1: Hope. There is a part of you that holds hope because you are reaching out for therapy services, whether it is for a weekend intensive or a weekly session. Something inside of you is curious about the prospects of change; it may even feel like desperation. However you describe that sense, it likely means there is the possibility of seeing yourself different or doing something differently.
That's the basic definition of hope - to want something to happen, to desire with expectation, to want something to happen or be true and think that it could happen or be true.
It doesn't matter if that hope is small - we can expand it and help it to grow. Sometimes, hoping things can be different is met with anxiety - what would that look like? It's the great unknown, yet you can find comfort in this truth - you know and you don't know. Trauma or life's stressors has a way of keeping you from accessing the essence of who you are, after all, that's the part that was rejected, dismissed, overlooked, silenced, or ignored, so it makes sense that there is some apprehension. However, I encourage you to let that hope be the seed you use to heal and grow. We do this together.
Number 2: Neuroplasticity. Your system is designed to change. Life events cause you to think and act differently.
Neuroplasticity is defined as the ability of the brain to form and reorganize synaptic connections, especially in response to learning or experiences. In other words, your brain can change - wow, there's that hope again, but it's confirmed by science.
I could spend all day talking about neuroplasticity so I won't bore you.
Let me summarize this by speaking to the part of you that has this innate sense, this ever so small unction, deep inside, that there is a missing piece. Something is calling you from deep inside. To that part I say, "I see you. I know you are there, and I am waiting for you."
The answer to the question? YES, change is possible. It is an evolutionary journey that you deserve.
If you'd like to know more about how you can start your journey, reach out via email or schedule an appointment here.
I've been in this field for a minute, and what I'm realizing is so many people don't understand the brain-body connection, so I'm hoping this blog will start the wheels turning to help you gain a better understanding, and why somatic, brain/body based therapies may be more in line to obtaining healing and resolution of your trauma.
In the realm of mental and emotional well-being, the impact of trauma is often deep-seated and far-reaching. Trauma can also stem from intergenerational, trans, or multigenerational trauma and patterns passed down through epigenetics. For example, did you know that In the realm of biology, males have the ongoing capacity to produce sperm, whereas females are understood to enter the world with a fixed quantity of eggs. This knowledge underscores the profound significance of each prenatal experience, as it carries the potential to leave a lasting imprint on three successive generations (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6791571/). If we understand this to be true, then it stands to reason there are things that are held within our bodies that we may not have language or understanding about, yet we can have a "felt sense" about it. This is what I mean when I talk about the brain/body connection. There is a somatic memory in the body that may or may not stem from any of your personal experiences.
While traditional talk therapy has proven effective for many individuals, it's important to recognize that healing isn't solely confined to the realm of conversation. Our bodies hold trauma in intricate ways, and the connection between the brain and body plays a pivotal role in the process of healing and resolution.
The Resonance of Trauma in Our Bodies
Trauma, whether resulting from a single overwhelming event or chronic stressors, can manifest in both psychological and physiological ways. It's not uncommon for individuals to experience physical symptoms like muscle tension, digestive issues, or headaches alongside emotional distress. The body responds to traumatic experiences by activating the fight-or-flight response, releasing stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. Over time, this can lead to a state of hyperarousal, where the body remains on high alert even when the threat is no longer present. Moreover, the body's responses to trauma can become ingrained, leading to patterns of chronic pain, discomfort, or illness.
These physical manifestations are not merely coincidental but rather reflective of the body's attempt to cope with the unresolved trauma. Thus, addressing trauma solely through talk therapy may overlook the profound impact it has on the body.
The Intricate Brain-Body Connection
The brain and body are intrinsically linked through a complex network of neurons, neurotransmitters, and hormones. This connection is the key to understanding how trauma affects us on multiple levels. When we experience a traumatic event, the brain processes the sensory and emotional information, encoding it in neural pathways. Simultaneously, the body's physiological responses are stored, creating a comprehensive memory that is etched into both mind and body.
The brain's amygdala, responsible for processing emotions, and the hippocampus, responsible for memory, play crucial roles in this process. Trauma can alter their functioning, resulting in heightened emotional responses, impaired memory consolidation, and a distorted sense of time. The brain's efforts to protect us from re-experiencing trauma can inadvertently prolong our suffering, as these mechanisms become counterproductive in everyday life.
Beyond Talk Therapy: Exploring Holistic Healing Approaches
While talk therapy, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and psychoanalysis, has proven valuable in helping individuals understand their trauma and develop coping strategies, it may not be sufficient on its own. In most cases, you may experience some resolution yet find yourself continuing to be affected. I call this an "open wound." If you find your wounds still open after talk therapy, it may be a sign you need to go deeper into the body. Below are a few of my favorite holistic approaches that acknowledge the body's role in trauma and through use have created more opportunities for deeper healing and resolution.
Somatic Therapies: These therapies focus on the body's sensations and responses to promote healing. Techniques like somatic experiencing and sensorimotor psychotherapy aim to release trapped energy from traumatic events, allowing the body to reset its stress responses. I love Brainspotting for somatic therapy, but there's also SE (Somatic Experiencing) as modalities.
Mindfulness and Meditation: Practices that promote mindfulness and meditation can help individuals reconnect with their bodies and observe their sensations without judgment. This can foster self-awareness and aid in processing trauma from a place of compassion. Mindfulness doesn't mean sitting in silence. I love being creative in these areas. Bring in the senses and see where it goes.
Movement: Engaging in mindful movements, can help release physical tension and facilitate emotional release. Movement encourages individuals to listen to their bodies and connect with their breath, creating a harmonious integration of body and mind.
Art and Culturally Expressive Modalities: Creative outlets like art, music, dance, drumming, using sound, being in nature, and visualization card decks provide alternative avenues for expressing and processing trauma. These modalities tap into the non-verbal aspects of the brain and body connection, allowing for a deeper exploration of emotions.
Embracing Holistic Healing Beyond Talk Therapy
In the journey toward healing and resolution, it's vital to recognize the intricate connection between the brain and body. Trauma resides not only in our minds but also in the physical sensations and responses that linger within us. While talk therapy remains a valuable tool, embracing holistic approaches that encompass the body's role can provide a more comprehensive pathway to healing. By acknowledging the resonance of trauma throughout our entire being, we pave the way for a more profound and holistic sense of well-being.
It is my hope that you have more insight, and are open to this concept of moving beyond talk therapy and into more brain/body modalities. If healing is the goal, sometimes we need to step outside of societal norms and be uncomfortable. Who knows, that uncomfortableness may lead you into a level of healing you never expected.
Feel free to reach out if this resonates with you and you're ready to do something different through Brainspotting.